Notes from Darin

Good morning!! I firmly believe that a healthy, happy, energetic, giving, wealthy and fulfilled life is an obtainable goal for each and everyone of us. Or it is un-obtainable. It depends on what you believe. To give yourself the best chances of doing so, I believe that we should focus on it in an optimistic way every day.

FOCUS ON IT, SPEAK IT, HANG AROUND ROLE MODELS
All of us at one time or another have wished for all of the above. But the problem with what most of us have done in the past, is three fold. INTENSITY, CONSISTENCY, PEER GROUP.

CONSISTENCY= YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT EVERY DAY. HOW MANY OF YOU HAD SOME GOALS AT THE FIRST OF THE YEAR? ARE YOU STILL FOCUSED ON THOSE GOALS EVERYDAY? QUITTERS NEVER WIN AND WINNERS NEVER QUIT. THE BEST TIMES ARE 5 MIN. UPON WAKENING, AND 5 MIN. BEFORE SLEEP.

INTENSITY= You will increase your chances of obtaining anything by speaking your goal outloud. There is power in the spoken word. Say it like you mean it. While you do this, close your eyes and vividly see yourself obtaining your goal in a euphoric state. Feel the emotion of what it would feel like. Men, let go of the John Wayne syndrome and get in touch with your emotions.


PEER GROUP
We are all aware of and have experienced peer pressure. Quite simply, we are most definitely going to turn into who we hang around. Lets consistently pick the people we associate with very carefully. Find your role models and tactfully use good people skills to be around them as much as possible. Making people laugh is an artful skill that works wonders. Another is called mirroring which I will cover in my next e-mail (it is very powerful)


P.S. THE ZACH MONOHAN STORY JUST KEEPS GETTING BETTER. (CLICK ON VIEW WEB-SITE ABOVE AND GO TO TESTIMONIAL LINK THEN TO SPECIAL INTEREST #20 TO GET INSPIRED BY HIS STORY) HE HAS HIS FIRST PROFESSIONAL SPEAKING ENGAGEMENT AT SILVER CROSS HOSPITAL IN JOLIET THIS WEDNESDAY AT 7:00 P.M. E-MAIL HIM IF OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW NEEDS A KICK IN THE _SS! AFTER HEARING HIS STORY YOU WON'T MAKE EXCUSES!

MANY OF YOUR RECEIVING THIS E-MAIL ARE CLIENTS (PRESENTLY 40) OR EX-CLIENTS (APPROXIMATELY 200). I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR HELPING MOLD ME INTO A BETTER MAN. I HAVE HELPED YOU WITH FITNESS/FATLOSS AND YOU HAVE HELPED ME WITH ENTREPRENEURIAL SHIP AND BUSINESS SKILLS. FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, I COULD NOT, I WOULD NOT PICK ANOTHER PEER GROUP TO HANG AROUND, OTHER THAN EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU.

Sincerely,

DARIN STEEN
ELITE PHYSIQUES